unearth the wholeness within You

Unearth your innate wisdom through Transpersonal Archaeopsychology. Together, we'll navigate the depths of your being, honoring every part of you while opening space for the infinite resource of your essential Self. This journey isn't about fixing what's broken, but rediscovering the wholeness that's always been within.

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I've developed a unique approach to coaching, blending techniques from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and various spiritual practices. My work is deeply informed by my own experiences of overcoming adversity and my commitment to continuous learning and growth. I've created the WHOLE Coaching System, a comprehensive framework designed to help you blaze your unique trail through self-discovery, goal-setting, action planning, and long-term growth.

These steps often require behaviors to change. That behavioral change requires internal insight, dialogue, and movement. All of this is possible with an effective tool kit. I believe in the power of empathetic listening, the importance of aligning actions with core values, and the transformative powers of self-acceptance and compassion. I'm not here to offer quick fixes or one-size-fits-all solutions, but to walk alongside others as they navigate their own paths of healing and growth.

Integrated into the WHOLE model is the meat of my approach, which I call Transpersonal Archeopsychology. It combines pieces of modern methodologies such as Motivational Interviewing, NVC, and IFS, with prehistoric wisdom, and an intuitive sense honed through lived experience. In this system, I join together ancestral spiritual practices, Jungian depth psychology, and the power of empathetic presence. My focus is on unearthing the wholeness that has always been within each of us, not fixing something that’s assumed to be broken.

This combination allows me to guide those with whom I work, in exploring their inner parts, accessing their core Self, and facilitating healing and integration. My experience with IFS has been transformative both personally and professionally, enabling me to offer a compassionate, non-pathologizing framework for self-discovery and growth.

Should we work together, you will have my full support. Sometimes, that will mean encouraging you in ways you will be challenged by. Read that as a disclaimer.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS):

    • Core Concept: IFS is an evidence based, “cutting edge” therapeutic modality that views the mind as composed of multiple "parts" (subpersonalities) centered around a compassionate "Self."

    • Key Principles: All parts have positive intentions; symptoms are protective, not diagnostic criteria for pathological disorders; the goal is internal harmony led by the Self.

    • Healing Process: Identify parts, access the calm Self, heal and retrieve wounded parts, unite and integrate the internal system with Self-leadership

    • Applications: Developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, IFS is used in various therapeutic, clinical, and non-clinical settings to promote wholeness, self-awareness, freedom, and Self-leadership

    Jungian depth psychology and mythopoetic soul craft: 

    • Individuation Process: Focuses on the lifelong journey of integrating conscious and unconscious aspects of the psyche, leading to the realization of the Self.

    • Archetypal Exploration: Engages with universal patterns (archetypes) in the collective unconscious through myths, dreams, and active imagination.

    • Shadow Work: Involves confronting and integrating the shadow, the repressed or unconscious aspects of one's personality.

    • Anima/Animus Integration: Emphasizes the importance of recognizing and integrating the contrasexual aspects of the psyche for psychological wholeness.

    • Synchronicity and Symbolic Life: Cultivates awareness of meaningful coincidences and symbolic experiences as manifestations of the unus mundus, or underlying unity of all things.

    • Mythopoetic Identity: Encourages the discovery of one's unique soul purpose through engagement with personal and collective myths, often facilitated by nature-based practices.

    Ancestral, prehistoric healing methods:

    • Altered States: Use self-designed rituals, drumming, and somatic movement to shift consciousness and heart coherence, without adhering to specific dogmas

    • Inner Journeying: Employ visualization and sensory awareness to explore the collective and personal unconscious, navigating liminal spaces and alternate realities

    • Ancestral Work: Focus on healing generational trauma and uncovering inherited gifts and wisdom through inner journeying and energetic practices

    • Life Force Connection: Cultivate a sense of oneness with the broader community of life, attuning to the interconnected web of existence and natural energies

    • Allies: Engage with healing, guiding, and protective spirits (or archetypes and complexes for secular practitioners) to receive support and insights during journeys and daily life

  • The WHOLE Coaching System stands for:

    • W – Where You Are Now

    • H – Harmonize Goals

    • O – Obstacles & Opportunities

    • L – Launch Strategies

    • E – Evolve & Sustain

    This five-phase process is designed to guide you step-by-step through self-discovery, goal-setting, action planning, and long-term growth. It’s not just about achieving a single goal—it’s about creating a life that feels whole, balanced, and fulfilling.

    1. W – Where You Are Now

    We begin by understanding your current circumstances and clarifying your needs. This phase lays the foundation for meaningful change. This phase ensures we have a clear picture of where you are now and what’s most important to you.

    2. H – Harmonize Goals

    This phase focuses on aligning your goals with your values and ensuring they fit into the larger context of your life. By harmonizing your goals with the rest of your life, we create a roadmap that feels both achievable and meaningful.

    3. O – Obstacles & Opportunities

    Once your goals are clear, we’ll identify potential challenges and resources to prepare you for success. This phase ensures that no challenge goes unaddressed while also leveraging opportunities for growth.

    4. L – Launch Strategies

    Here’s where we turn plans into action with clear strategies for moving forward. This phase builds momentum by providing actionable steps while preparing for potential roadblocks.

    5. E – Evolve & Sustain

    The final phase focuses on creating lasting change by addressing deeper patterns, celebrating success, and fostering long-term growth. This phase ensures that the transformation doesn’t stop when coaching ends—it becomes part of who you are.

    Why Choose the WHOLE Coaching System?

    The WHOLE Coaching System is designed to empower you at every step of the journey:

    1. It starts with understanding where you are now (Where You Are Now) so we can build from a place of clarity.

    2. It ensures alignment between your goals and values (Harmonize Goals) so that every step feels meaningful.

    3. It prepares you for challenges while leveraging opportunities (Obstacles & Opportunities) so nothing stands in your way.

    4. It creates momentum with actionable steps (Launch Strategies) so you can move forward confidently.

    5. It fosters long-term transformation by addressing deeper patterns and building sustainable habits (Evolve & Sustain) so that change lasts far beyond our work together.

    With WHOLE, you’re not just achieving goals—you’re creating a life that feels complete, balanced, and aligned with who you truly are.

    If this resonates with you and you're ready to take the first step toward meaningful transformation, let’s connect! Together, we’ll create a personalized plan tailored to your unique needs and aspirations so that you can live a life that feels truly whole!

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Who’s This Guy?

I'm Mercurio. Thanks for being here! Before we dive into anything tenebrific, I want to express how profoundly grateful I am for my 39 years of life. Despite enduring a tumultuous childhood and early adult life, somehow I've preserved a deeply animate sense of fervorous purpose, that guides my work and personal growth. My life is rich with an enlivening flow of creative energy and meaningful experiences. I'm not here to present myself as some perfect, polished, guru with all the answers. It would be more accurate to say that I'm a feral beast - a wild man, with a mostly gentle heart, carrying some hard-earned wisdom, and I’m happy to share.

While I certainly don't claim to have reverse engineered the human experience, I assert that I've indeed drowned to the bottom of the well - the soul, the Jungian shadow, the most tormenting dungeon of the personal unconscious - and been resuscitated. Through ongoing, dedicated, and treacherous descents into the labyrinthian trenches of the deep, I've miraculously been able to allow my own healing. In turn, this healing has enabled me to transform these experiences into a source of personal power, empathy, and understanding in my one-on-one work with others. My life, like yours, stands as an example of the resilience of the human spirit and the possibility of creating a fulfilling life despite the most debilitating of challenges. My role is to walk alongside you as you unearth the wholeness that has always been within you, to be my most resourced Self, and share those resources with you as you learn your way around new depths of your own inner landscape, healing what you find along the way.

Diverse Roles

Over the years, I've worn many hats - martial arts instructor, personal trainer, peer mentor, life coach, and unemployed life coach, to name a few. I've held 46 jobs across various industries, from food service to manufacturing to program management. These diverse experiences have allowed me to observe and experience the glorious, perilous quest of humaning in a plethora of different shoes. It has also equipped me with a unique toolkit for helping others.

These tools are not just techniques, however. They represent years of exploration, adaptation, and integration, born from my own experiences of overcoming adversity and seeking wholeness. I've learned to see the interconnectedness between the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of life, and have developed a framework that empowers individuals to align their actions with their values while addressing the deeper layers of identity and purpose. This work is deeply personal to me, and it's my way of offering others the clarity, resilience, and sense of freedom and peace that I've found through my own process. Through our collaborative partnership, you can expect to have a more embodied sense of self, develop a clearer vision for your life, set and achieve meaningful goals, and experience deep integration - if you're willing to bend your perspective and open your mind and heart in several different ways.

Theoretical Foundations, Philosophy, and Approach

My approach to coaching is deeply informed by extensive study and practice of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. I’ve thoroughly studied all of Richard Schwartz's books, and worked closely with colleagues and trainers to deepen my understanding of the material and its applications. I've also spent over a decade absorbing the works of Carl Jung, and applying the ancient wisdom passed down by our ancestors in the form of mythology and fairy tales. 

Through this work, I have developed the WHOLE Coaching System. With this model, I integrate Nonviolent Communication philosophies (NVC), IFS therapy principles, as well as a healing and processing modality that I call Transpersonal Archaeopsychology (a blend of ancestral wisdom, Jungian depth psychology, and mythopoetic soul craft). This combination allows me to guide clients in exploring their inner parts, accessing their core Self, and facilitating healing and integration. My coaching approach is designed to create a safe and supportive environment where you can freely express yourself without fear of judgment. I prioritize building trust and respect, maintaining confidentiality, and demonstrating empathy throughout our work together, adhering to a comprehensive Code of Ethics that ensures the highest standards of integrity, respect, and client-centered practice in all our interactions.

Although I'm versed in the mystical and transpersonal realms, I'm equally at home in the secular sandbox—I'll keep our work grounded in psychological terrain for the skeptics, materialists, and science enthusiasts among us, only venturing into spiritual territories if you extend the invitation.

If you're considering working with me, know that I bring not only my professional skills, but also my lived experience, to our interactions. I offer my whole Self to our interactions - imperfections, playful oddities, and ongoing growth included. All of this is in service of supporting others on their journeys of self-discovery and transformation. If you're ready to dive deep and explore the uncharted territories of your psyche, I'm here to guide you through the process, feral wisdom and all.

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